Tuesday, April 03, 2012

感觉不到的细心


很多的男生常常覺得女人的心很難懂, 我想不是女人的心难懂,而是男人常常粗心大意,一点都不细心,然而就酱忽略了女人的內心的感受。


其实,我们女人很简单,到头来,想要的就是一个拥抱,一点爱,一点关心,一点点的疼爱而已。


有时候后啊,女人真的会很纳闷,明明都在发脾气,闹情绪,可是到头来,男人却根本不知道。


真的让女人不知如何是好。感觉笨笨的气了1-2天,结果一点效率都没有。


女人很简单。


到最后,哪怕没有道歉,还是会傻傻的原谅男人。


只因女人真的喜欢上男人了。

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

New Year's Eve 2010

Totally feeling insance for blogging my New Year's eve when it's already in the month of August.


But again, felt like putting this down onto my blog.


On the 31st Dec 2010, which marks the fourth trip to Malacca, I took a half day's leave and head to Malacca with HH. After our quick lunch with 大姑,三姑 and mama, HH drove to Malacca, and we reached his home around 4.30pm.


Upon reaching his house, greeted happily by his mum, whom were asking us if we would like Popiah for dinner. Which was a great idea.


Self making popiah were the best, you can put whatever ingredients you may like. Mine of course, with loads of sambal~ Yummy...


After our Popiah dinner, we went Carrefour to shop around, do some house grocery shopping. Yeah, I found HH's family love to go shopping after dinner to places like Carrefour, Giant and Jusco. They tend to have this habit. Do house grocery, in each of the selected places.


We went home before midnite. HH asked if I would like to go out and pack around with the heaps, since it was quite a hot night, we rather stay at home and enjoy ourselves. All these while before going there, I had been wandaring what's it like to celebrate New Year's Eve in Malacca. Which was suddenly being thrown with words like damn jam, loads of people, just a tiny place for countdown, no parking, scary bunch of people... etc.


Well... it was not a bad idea staying at home, knowing you do not need to pack around with others, sweating along waiting for miracles which often were nothing more than a few fireworks.

Sunday, August 07, 2011

将来的那个人

昨天在电台听到DJ说张小娴曾写过一片文章,有关将来的那个人。你是否确认爱一个人。。。


于是搜索了一下,发现以下这个文章。这里和大家分享。


张小娴 - 将来的那个人


当他年老,卧病在床的时候,你愿意照顾他吗?


听别人说,想知道自己是否爱一个人,只要想象一下,当他年老,卧病在床的时候,你愿意照顾他吗?

想到他老病的样子,你已经有点沮丧,那么,他绝对不是能够跟你厮守的人。

很幸运,我曾经遇到的,都是愿意在医院和病床前陪我的人。同样的,也是一种不幸。

很久以前读过一篇访谈文章,被访者是一位事业成功的男士。他说,年轻时他有过一个女朋友。一次,那个女孩子患肺病住进了医院,他过去一次之后,就再没去过,因为受不了病人身上的那种味道。女孩当然也明白,出院后没有再见他。

男士固然没错,女生做的也没错。

我不知道,到底是他不够爱她,还是他不能够忍受自己所爱的人软弱和生病。我也不知道,当他年老病倒的时候,会不会有一个爱他的人愿意包涵,不介意他的味道。

爱一个健康的人毫无困难。

爱一个穷人,是一种选择。

爱一个老病的人,是命运。当健康离弃了我们所爱的那个人,我们还能够爱他吗?

也许是几十年后的事了,但是,你现在就会知道他值不值得。

你到时候任然能够爱他,也还是不够的。当你同样年老,病在床上的时候,你愿意由他来照顾你吗?

你愿意让他看到你蓬头垢面的样子,衣衫不整的样子,面容憔悴的样子么?

只要他在,你就放心了。只要握住他的手,你就会感觉到不怕了。那么,他是你寻觅的人。

你只希望他是个来探病的朋友,而不是夜里抱你上厕所的人,那么,你要找的人,也许不是他。

在最软弱的时候,你会想念的那个人,还有,在那个人最软弱的时候,你会怜惜的,才是彼此将来的那个人。

那么,紧紧抓住他的手,不然后悔的,只能是你自己。


Saturday, June 25, 2011

Germany Dusseldorf Here I Come~


Never in my life, I would thought of going to Germany - Dusseldorf.
A month ago, I don't even know how to spell the City Dusseldorf which I am going today.

Have never heard of the place. As you know, my geography lesson was only a pass, and I don't really know where Germany is. All I know recently was that Ozil was from Germany. Wahahahaha.....

Until lately, my full research of where and how to go Dusseldorf.

Thanks to my boss, giving me the opportunity to follow him to an exhibition - GIFA2011 in Dusseldorf.

It will be a tiring day as I browsed tru the Organiser's website that there are more than 14halls to cover. Every hall is just so Huge. Anyway, it will be an exciting trip to the west.

My flight tonite is at 9.35pm, leaving KLIA to Bangkok and then to Frankfurt. At Frankfurt, we will be taking the ICE train to Dusseldorf.

It's about time for me to get prepared and off to the airport.

Say Goodbye to all my lovely friends in Malaysia.

See you again .... will miss all of you~

*FYI, will be back on track on the 6th July 2011*
Till we meet again.

Take care buddies.............

Monday, June 20, 2011

看医生,还是。。。医生看我

昨晚因为脸上突然跑出了一片红红肿肿的印在我左嘴侧。

Sekinchan回家后,冲完凉,睡了一会儿,起来,发现嘴巴红红的。

吓倒我了。快快吃完晚饭(晚饭也只吃粥)后,去到Klinik Sabrina看医生。哎呀。。是医生看我才对啦。。。哈哈。

因为遇到星期天,很多医生都没有开,所以这家特别多人等。有些人还站在外面呢。

在那边,看到有一对情侣。 (看样子因该还没结婚,因为手子没带戒指的)。

两个人手牵手,坐在一个角落。

男的帮女的戴上MP3,就这样,没有特别说话,静静地手牵手,等待nurse叫名字。

就这样,我望着他们快2小时了(娘的。。你看啦。看医生也要等那么久。如果不是肿在脸上,我才懒得过去呢)。女的站起来,走到医生房间。男的也随身跟了进去。

出来后,女的笑了。男的依然紧握着女的手。

这个画面,多感动。 可能平时没有去注意什么,现在才发现,原来不用一个人看医生,便是幸福了。 这种幸福,买不到。也祈求不来。

不管另一半遇到什么疾病或痛,有另外一半的谅解和体贴,她便不会感到那么痛,那么辛苦了。

如果女的到了65岁,男的依然这样手牵手带着老婆看医生,那么,这个个老婆真的是幸福啊。

你呢?找到和你一起进医生房间的那个另一半了吗?多么不容易啊~

如果找到了,好好珍惜吧~ 你是幸福的。

Monday, June 06, 2011

Happy 端午节

部落格空着有一段日子了。

写的目录也空着快大半年了。

今天进入的六月的第六天了。


Come to 自己网子看看,发现自己部落格上,没有一个是写我2011里面发生的事情。


仿佛消失在网络里面了。


哈哈。。。

如今,我回来了。


也不是去了什么遥远的地方,只是,多了一个人在身边,突然显得时间少了。

要做的事情,也突然变多了。所以一时间转不过来。

所以才把这里空的那么久了。

读者们。。。 请你们了解我吧。


(废话连篇。明明就是自己懒惰咯。还要赖东赖西。还要求人家原谅。我看你啊。。 这个部落格也没人要看的啦!!!)


今天是端午节。 原本想早早起来,到豪豪公司外面,送粽子给他吃。可是,因为自己太困了。闹钟响了,却自己把它给按掉,然后继续睡觉。时间真的太早了嘛!不能醒来啊~


后来到了公司,又想,不然下午吃饭时间拿到豪豪公司去。可是他一口气就说没有时间吃。也不方便。于是约了我晚上一起吃。

我们两刚刚到波士顿吃一餐粽子+啦啦+虾糕大餐。

也不是什么大餐啦。

就是普通一餐。。。。

端午节二人世界饭