Monday, September 20, 2010

你有什么愿望啊?

MSN Chat 13 ‎September, ‎2010, ‏‎10:59:35 PM


JL says: 说到愿望。。 现在你有什么愿望啊?说来听听


Victor™: says: 成家立业


JL says: 什么东西啊?


Victor™: says: 你不懂啊? (哎呀,我又不是笨蛋, 我当然知道啦。。只是想知道的更加仔细而已啦)


JL says: 现立业吧~


Victor™: says: 你问我有什么愿望嘛。。。 结婚生孩子做生意咯


JL says: 好啦。。 好啦。。 我的意思是。。这个。。。 不是什么愿望啊


Victor™: says: 那你的愿望是什么?(每次就是这样咯。。。我问他,他就会问我。 然后我就忘了继续问回他!)


JL says: 上次和你实现了呀就是在。。。 夜市里。。和你手牵手一起走。。。


Victor™: says: 一个而已?(当然不止一个咯。。。 还有很多很多呢。。。 我想慢慢的一个一个去实现它。 可是啊,自从认识豪,我已经达成蛮多小愿望了啦。 接下来的,我们一起慢慢的实现吧。。。)


Victor™: says: 我的愿望很简单而已... 每一年都一样的


JL says: 我的也很简单啊~


Victor™: says: 你可以不可以帮我实现啊?


JL says:
什么呢? (在等待他的msn的时候,我在想。。。 他会不会写要我和他一起度过情人节和圣诞节呢 – 哈哈。。。 怎么可能。结果看下面~)

Victor™: says: 就是你生日啊,我生日啊,情人节啊,国庆日啊,圣诞节啊,新年啊,大大小小的日子,不论开心不开心的,都跟你一起度过

。。。 酱就够了


哎哟。。。 真会tam女孩子。

听了很感动。。。 当时还眼湿湿呢。。。。


那个时候,我是幸福的。。。 因为有他,我感觉很幸福。

Attn : Mr. Tye Yee En

I hereby would like to seek your approval for below matters.

All the below itinerary will be of outing with Ms. Koh Wei Fen, hereby seeking for your approval.

Kindly refer below for more details.

1. July 1st My Birthday. Many people would like to celebrate with me on that day. Many people have suggested many places to celebrate. Places like Sherpherdoo, Skybar, Luna Bar, Modestos, Neway and so on. After several arguments on the exact location, we finally come to a conclusion to go Pulau Carey for dinner, as because it’s the cheapest place of all the chosen places. We have also decided to only order plain water as drink and no carbonated drinks or alcohol allowed. We will make sure our dinner is of most budget.

2. Our another friend, Ms. Alice, purposely postponed her birthday party to July 16th because of Weifen’s operation. Therefore, we will be celebrating her belated birthday at Skybar. We seek your permission to allow us to continue our Skybar event as this was planned much earlier, before our agreement started. We hope you can provide us permit to go Skybar with her. Although there might be expenses, but we will make sure we only drink ONE glass of drink that particular night.

3. Me and Weifen planned to have an Oversea Trip in year 2010 (since 2009). I do not want to break my promise to her for going oversea with her, but I also want to adhere to your promise too. Since Mr. Tye do not like me to spend too much money, therefore, in order for two of my buddy (Mr. Tye and Weifen) to be happy, I’ll only bring Weifen to a small trip to Singapore (consider oversea liow lor.. cause pass the Singapore-Johor sea ma........) for a 2D 1N trip on August 14th,2010. We hope you can consider our trip as approved because after several researches done on the website; Singapore is the cheapest and budget trip “Oversea”.

4. We also seek your approval for the trip to Genting on this Saturday 3rd July (this trip was made before our promise). Since ticket and hotel were being paid earlier, we could not reduce or change the ticket or hotel. We have contacted Genting Berhad and found that there are no mamak stall available uphill. Nearest mamak will be located downhill near the Petrol Station. Therefore, we seek your kind approval so that we can eat a little better in Genting. We will still drink our Plain Water (as usual), but hopefully Mr. Tye will allow us to eat better food uphill. If this was not granted approval, then I have no choice, but to drive all the way downhill to the mamak stall for our dinner and breakfast the next morning.

For above four items, we really hope you are able to approve us. We seek your kind understanding and hope to receive a favourable reply from you.

Kindly do not hesistate to contact me if you need any clarification.

Awaiting your reply the soonest.

Thank you in advance.

Sekian, terima kasih.
....................................................................................

Above was an email sent over to Mr. Tye (Weifen's Husband's Best Buddy).
It was because previously, he accused me a lot for bringing WF out so frequently and that both our expenses are very high. He complained that we always eat and drink expensively... and goes for expensive dinners and club.

He ADVICED us to drink plain water in mamak stall instead if we were going out for a chat, and ADVICED us not to spend so much money anymore. I know he was doing a good deed, but... he wasn't Weifen's Hubby, so.. who cares... wahahahaha~

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Facebook Request


13-8-2010
今天是一个很特别的日子。 我不再是一个人了。
我有男朋友了。。。 哈哈。。。 [在这里说这个,还真paiseh呢]
是不是很好笑啊?活到如今才谈我第一次的恋爱。是。。我就是。。
你们就大声的笑吧。。。

我也不知道这个恋爱该不该开始,是对还是错的。。。。可是,我就是想试。

他毫无给我考虑,就在Facebook里change掉他的status from ‘Single’ to ‘In a Relationship’. 还send一个request要我Approve呢。

我想了半天,都不敢有任何动作。当我在烦恼的时候,Hong Hong来了短讯。她好兴奋!她真的比我还要兴奋。我也不知道她为什么会无端端来短讯给我。问的就是我是不是有男朋友了。

我告诉她说‘我们两是不同年代的人啊。。。我也不知道该如何’

Hong Hong很快的就回答了‘So what??’。

她一而再,再而三的叫我要珍惜,要惜缘,要一起克服。。。要勇敢一点。机会只有一次,一定要珍惜。

也因为她的短讯,我有了‘来就来吧。。。想那么多干嘛呀。。。 今天不知明天事。。。click就 click 吧!’

于是,我就按了Approve键了。Click的那刹那,我知道肯定很多人会不喜欢我们这样的关系。。。 毕竟老早就听到反对的声音了。也不管那么多了。

我当时想做的就是按Approve键而已~

我的初吻

哎呀,不要笑我啦。。我知道。。我都知道。现在才写我的初吻。肯定给你们丢鸡蛋的!你们就忍一忍吧。。。要读的请继续,不要的,请按next!

12-8-2010

豪在MSN说他要过来我的家躲一躲。因为番薯一直要拉他出去喝酒。于是他一直说要过来我的新家这里坐坐。 我没有想很多,就说OK了。

我想他肯定不会路来我的新家这里,因为他只来过一次而已。我想,不如约他到附近的OLD TOWN喝喝茶就好了。 没有30分钟,他就站在我家门口了。我也只好开门咯。

后来,在客厅里玩一玩电脑,无聊的聊天,然后和芬MSN聊天咯。

老实说。。我当时有点担心的。因为时间不早了。无端端一个男生来到家中。。。总是让我不安心啊。也害怕突然隔壁的老板娘过来‘问候’我。。。 我就惨咯。

后来,他也一直说他很累很累,好想睡觉。客厅,什么都没有。就一张桌子和椅子。我想让他休息一会儿,然后才回家的。

没有想太多,就叫他到我房间睡觉。[之前云顶也和他一起一个房间睡觉,没有什么特别的啊。。。反正就他睡他的, 我睡我的咯]。

关上了灯,留下一个小暗灯。

他忽然问了一句‘我可以抱你吗?我一定要抱一样东西才可以入睡的叻’。
丢个抱枕让他慢慢抱咯。

接着。。。他便说‘那,你有没有接过吻啊?’
天啊。。。我还真不知道怎么回答他呢。。。。
只是赶紧叫他快点睡觉啦!
于是。。 我迷迷糊糊中听到他说‘~~凡是有第一次~~’。。。。

我还没来的及听清楚那句话。。。有一个[东西]就贴在我嘴巴上了。
我当时。。真的不知道如何的反应。只是闭上眼睛,什么都不敢看,什么都没有做 , 也没有什么回应的。就这样傻傻的硬着了。我想有一阵子没有反应,他也觉得没有意思了吧。。。 还取笑我说‘哈哈。。你真的不会接吻啊!’我却是觉得里面含有嘲笑的成分。我有一刹那被他的[取笑][伤了自尊心]。

不管了。。。死就死吧。。。 乱乱吻咯!!

就这样乱吻了很长一段时间,口水满天飞。

哎。。。原以为我的初吻会在沙滩上面,看着日落。。。然后很温柔的细细相吻。

结果地点在家中,还要被对方嘲笑呢!!

就这样搂搂抱抱了一个晚上。
读到这里就好了啦。。。没有下半场了。
The End……

Monday, September 13, 2010

Ms Chua BBQ Party 10-4-2010

Can't believe I am typing about April BBQ dinner on my September blog page now. Hahahaha

My manager organized a small family party in her house, for... fun...
Then, invited a few of us, colleagues there to play play.
Started the BBQ fire, arranging foods to the car porch.
Nasi lemak, meehoon goreng, kari puff, jelly, watermelon, kuih nyonya and other food. All home-made brought by different people.
Oh ya... even got tarbao bah kut teh also!

Ms. How and her beautiful smile....


My beautiful niece

My cousin brother and my niece - Evon

Happy Family....
Wow... these kids.... were running around the living room, like the living room was the South Africa football field....

Such a cute baby... like mother like son~ Hehehe

The gang that were responsible for the BBQ stove that nite.

I luv this photo.. so sweet....

Oh.. we even had satay and gravy that night...

Gosh... my face so oily...
Of course la.. you know how many chicken wings I BBQed that night or not!!!!!


The photo shows like we were having so much fun around the fire area.
But honestly, everyone there was like complaining about the heat, and how slow was it for the damn chicken wing to get cooked!!!!!
Those chicken wings took ages to get cooked... and served on the table, not even 2minutes left bones!
Have you seen such a colourful BBQ spread before.... yummy~

Operation Beautiful

I came across an article in Star newspaper which tells us about Beauty and Confidence.


Join the mission by clicking: www.operationbeautiful.com


The goal of the Operation Beautiful website is to end negative self-talk or “Fat Talk.” It hope to helps readers realize how truly toxic negative self-talk is — it hurts you emotionally, spiritually, and physically.


When you start to post a note, you’re saying that, “I CHOOSE to be positive!”

· You are Perfect just the way you are.

· Wah…. Today you very beautiful wor…

· Hey gorgeous, you are beautiful just the way you are.

· You are so beautiful.

· You look beautiful today.

· You are beautiful today.

· You are amazing just the way you are.

· God handmade you. That’s why you are so beautiful.


Put these Sticky notes onto your mirror or dressing table with those words above. You’ll find your day feeling positive and beautiful all day long. It certainly does build up your confidence…..


Yeah… You are beautiful just the way you are…. It’s true~

Wednesday, September 01, 2010

Opera Clubbing Nite 23-7-2010

好久沒有出來wet wet了。最後一次就是Hong Hong的Hen’s Night吧。好久沒有瘋狂了。

這一天,我們來到了Opera玩。

快10點了,集合在Opera門前。芬定了位子。開了一瓶酒,被帶到靠近舞池的地方。Victor, YM, Michael, Wfen, Sumay and Chelsia.我們7個人在那裏開始跳啊跳,搖啊搖。。。轉來轉去。。。什麽pattern都有啦。

Michael是當晚的攝影師。我們幾個就一直吵這Michael給我們拍照片。

當晚有很多經典的事情發生哦。。。

酒精果然可以讓一個人變得勇敢起來。

那天晚上,YM主動牽起我的手。我沒有因此太興奮,只是在享受這當晚每個人都很high的氣氛而已。

芬超級high.她非常盡情的跳舞,激情的和老公摟摟抱抱。還很大膽的和Chelsia嘴對嘴接吻呢。。。 超爽!還跳辣舞呢。。。 可惜你們沒有看到。。 早知道就把她給錄影起來放進Youtube了!!就這樣笑啊笑,瘋狂的跳還有亂亂吻。。。 哈哈哈。。。

Sumay呢,我原以爲她很醉了,因爲在舞池裏面讓別人*抽水*,可是後來才知道,這些都是她的本能,本性。大家還叫我別去理會她。我本人覺得,跳舞辣很漂亮,可是,如果是和不認識的人跳的這樣辣。。。 就。。。 另外一回事了啦。。我不懂,我也是第一次看到自己的朋友這樣而已。可是哦。。 她最厲害了。我們之前還打賭說看看誰能在這裡[把]到男人,還有和男人要電話號碼。結果,她是冠軍。她一個人竟然在短短的兩個小時就有6個男生的電話號碼。。。 而且還有一位已經約她second round了。就等她走過去meet他們而已。 好厲害哦。。。漂亮性感的女生就有這樣的魅力嘛。。 好羡慕哦。。。。哦對,還有一位笨蛋男生還特地追她到女厠所那裏要Sumay的電話呢!那樣的瘋狂,那樣的性感,我想我也只是有心無力了。。 哈哈。。。

Michael不單是攝影師,也看得出他也玩的很high.感覺他那晚上很放鬆。很輕鬆。很享受音樂,很享受和我們這般小瘋癲在一起。他和芬還大庭廣衆的接吻呢~!!你看。。。這對夫婦多high啊~~好浪漫哦。。。

Chelsia呢,也玩的很happy哦。和芬亂吻亂搞一趟。。。好久沒有看到她了。 很久都沒有了她的消息。這一天,看到她,知道她女兒都快4嵗了,可是,這位美女一點都沒有變到。。。和10年前一樣漂亮!!笑起來還是那麽迷人。超級美麗的媽媽啊。。。

最後要提的就是我們當晚的主角了。。。儅儅儅。。。我們的俊豪!當晚他可是最最最厲害的啦。。。如何的厲害叻。。

來來來,我告訴你們哦。。。[喝的很快,醉的很快,倒的最快] 哈哈。。他呀,以爲自己在喝啤酒哦。。。一直自己灌自己。自己在那邊孟乾杯乾杯。結果。。。就這樣,不醒人事咯!色酒喔。。不是啤酒耶。結果到處亂吐,到處亂嘔。還亂亂說話呢。。。後來安頓他到sofa那裏坐下來。他也時不時在位子上亂吐呢!他一直都好醉哦。。。一開始就先醉了。也因爲這樣,他miss掉很多我們瘋狂的時光。也沒有看到大家在那裏high呢~ 很擔心他,一直想過去看看他,走靠近他。可是被芬她們攔住了。我也不知道什麽事情,一直不給我靠近他。事後才知道,原來那天晚上,他一直在喊這我的名字呢。大家因爲害怕他不知道會對我怎樣,所以就不讓我靠近他咯。哎呀。。真心疼這個傻瓜啊。。。

那天的一些照片。今天才發現在Facebook裏被刪除了。所以只grab到這一些些照片而已。

算是大合照吧。。。還有camera man咯!

主角上來咯~耶

這張cool哦。。。
爲什麽cool呢?
因爲豪的衣服開起來了。。。
很通風嘛。。所以就cool咯~! 哈哈哈~

YM好幸福。。。和女群拍照

女乒們都很high哦~!

Camera man 終于出來拍照了。。。。

我的初吻啊~。。好彩不是嘴對嘴 。。 哈哈哈



我喜歡多多人一起拍照~



芬。。你不必那麽近吧?


我們漂亮又性感的Sumay小姐。。。。

不过是美丽的错觉

30-7-2010 12.50am


原本手拿着电话等着豪的来电,可是不小心睡着了。

在我熟睡的时刻,电话响了。

还在半睡半醒的状态和他说话。


这是我第一次正式和他在电话里聊天吧。

我想他打来是为了说我和芬(Wfen)的事吧。

果然没有猜错。原先还以为会听到一把责备的声音, 可是到最后,豪还是没有把“它”给说出来。


也好,反正我也不太想聊起这件事情了。不该说的也说了。道歉也道歉过了。我想也不需要在多谈了。(不想在这里写发生什么事情,因为我根本不想把这件事记起来)。


豪这个人啊。。。 很坦白,很直接的。


我不敢听的事情,我不愿意去确认的事情,他当天晚上很轻松的通通给说出来。提到的是芬说的“Don’t play with fire, you will burn yourself ”。


其实我早就知道它的含义了。。。 只是一直在沉默和装傻而已。我也不想被烧伤,我也没有要伤害任何一个人。


可是。。。 这一切,我要躲也躲不开啊。。。他就这样很顺其自然的来到我面前,敲我的门。总是没有给我时间躲开, 也找不到任何角落去躲避。 (还是自己根本就没有要躲开的意思啊?)


我每次都把“心跳”挂在嘴边的对吧?


昨天晚上这样聊一聊,我发现,我不是心跳加速,而是呼吸和心跳同时停止了。。。 来不及反应。很多时候都愣在哪里了。


不要问我怎么了。。。我自己也不知道。 我想了好久也不知道我的“心”到底怎么了。是不是生病了呢?讲电话的时候,没有心跳。挂电话了过后,你知道我有多害怕我妹妹在我隔壁听到我的心再嘭嘭跳吗?跳了一个晚上,害我变成大熊猫了!


他就这样淡淡的说了“Follow your heart就可以了”。

这句话,让我听了好大压力哦。


我不懂自己有什么好考虑的。。。可是, 就是让我忐忑不定。

我怎么了?

我该不会真的烧伤我自己了吧?

我想不会的。。。 是我的错觉而已。。。

是的。。。错觉来的。。。

Monday, August 09, 2010

我的新房

我今天住进来我的新房了。
还好啦。。。没有什么特别的。
冲凉的时候,忘了我的洗脸霜以及梳子。
明天回家拿过来就好了。
当然会有点不习惯啦。。。
平时家里都是吵吵闹闹,人多的很。
现在,整个家都是空空的。就我和4副墙壁。
一直以来都想自己一个人在外面住的,现在有这样的机会了。可以让我好好的体会一个人生活的滋味了。
日子还很长呢。。。 我会好好过的。。。

加上刚从宾城回来,现在的我,确实感觉空虚寂寞起来。
快乐时光总是那么快就过了。一眨眼,我们的宾城旅程就这样结束了。

今天上班,心情都是闷闷的。不知怎么说,就是感觉很失落,很。。。怎么说呢。。。
就好像。。。很空是的。 很像没有了目标,没有往前走的动力了。
做起事来,都是在*拖时间* 似的。
不行啊。。 这样不可以啊。。
我必须要找回我那份动力和那股热爱色彩的生活。这样才不会浪费我的人生啊。

今天我怎么了。。。
也许是因为今天是洪福兴的生记吧。 今天一天都在重复的想起他。
不知不觉,他已经不再这里快半年了。这些日子,他都没有来报梦给我。
不是要打扰他,只是希望他在那个世界也可以活得很愉快罢了。

说到这里,让我想起了一件事。
不久以前,俊豪问了我一个很奇怪的问题。

*对了,我还没有在我的空间里好好的介绍俊豪这个人物。期待我下次写他的事吧。。。不会很久的*

他说“如果有一天,我去了很远很远的地方,你会怎么样?”

“我一有假期就去找你啊。。。”

“不是的,我说的是很远很远很远的地方”

“这样恐怕要拿长一些的holiday才可以去找你咯”

“我是说,如果我不在了呢?”

当时,我愣住了。不知怎么回答。这样的问题,我确实没有学过要如何去回答。
我好像是傻笑的带过。。。并责怪他问起这些怎么无聊的问题。
回到家了,我还是一直想这个问题。 它让我联想起洪福兴的事。 我已经少了一个曾经和我很要好的朋友。现在,我不想再有这一类的遗憾了。

所以,我非常珍惜和他在一起的时间。我不知道他问我这个问题是想听到些什么答案,可是,我现在看到他,都会不知觉的觉得这一次会不会是我们的最后一次呢?
因为有这样的想法,所以让我特别珍惜他,特别不舍得他。
每次都很细心的看着他的微笑。很细心的听他说话。所以我特别疼爱他,很不舍得看到他辛苦难过。也因为他,我觉得我的人生充满色彩。

写到这里,我又想哼一首歌了...

快樂 什麼時候會結束呢~
哪一刻是最後一刻~
想把你緊緊抱著~
可知你是我生命中的 最捨不得~

这一次宾城旅行,也因为他添加了很多快乐欢笑。

宾城之旅我会另外在写的。
现在一切恢复平静,加上今天搬家,突然很想有人陪在我的身边。好让我不用觉得那么孤单了。

Wednesday, August 04, 2010

Michael's Birthday Chiong Kay~

26-4-2010

It’s Michael’s Birthday today.
Celebrated with Weifen, Weifen’s parents and brother at Neway.
It was a fun time together. Took many photos….. as usual la.. bring SDLR camera to have cam-whore session de la…

Michael always the one don’t sing. I wonder why he goes KTV room without singing. Gosh… Hahaha…. Good also la.. then nobody fight microphone with me and Wfen liow… hahahaha

Weifen's mum always looks this young


Happy Family


Should have lit more candles to show he's getting older... wahahaha


Loving couple...



They look alike in some angle lor..

Pandamaran Pasar Pagi

25-4-2010

It’s a Sunday and mum asked to accompany her to Pandamaran pasar pagi to buy stuff. It was my first time going to that Pandamaran pasar… cause who the heck will travel so far when we have them right here at Taman Eng Ann/ Pasar Besar Jalan Meru?

My mum hor… betul betul nothing to do lor… wahahahaha

Then YM called over for breakfast together. Since I was going to have breakfast with mum too… asked him to join us as well. He suggested bah kut teh somewhere near the pasar. Didn’t talk much… the waiting of BKT itself already make me kisiao ledi… what mood also don’t have liow….

Sherpherdoo + Flavors

23-4-2010

Friends gathering at Sherpherdoo + Flavors, Centro. It was suppose to be a birthday celebration for Ah Mian…. but everyone seems to look tired, and XVee decided to leave early. She get’s tired easily… mind you… she’s having another little BB in her stomach now.

Another great news to share here was, Darren and Rinko are attached. Can’t imagine how, after 10 years of knowing one another, did they actually found their true love which was all these while right beside them. Ya... they probably already knew each other like for 10 years.. until the spark their love buds only at this recently…. oh.. according to them was 3 months old news. We (me and Hong Hong) were the slow turtle type. Almost the last to know.

Anyway, wish they had a fantastic time together, seeing them so lovingly and fresh.

Subang Parade Does Not Have Evita Peroni

22-4-2010

On Wfen’s request, took her to Subang to buy her Evita Peroni hair pin. She had been looking for the same Evita pin for a long time. Upon arrival, only we found that there was no Evita Peroni shop there. We did thought of going down to Mid Valley, but it was kinda late to rush there. So, we end up having our favourite Coffee Bean.

Gossiped all the way....

Fire of Conscience《火龙》

21-4-2010

A long anticipated movie….. Fire of Conscience《火龙》
My Richie Ren on action…

Fantastic movie….

Great one by Leon Lai and Richie Ren

Boston Lala with Ivan Cha + Jeremy + Ciu Ciu

18-4-2010

Had breakfast after my run with YM at Taman Rakyat. Coincidentally, his mum was there having breakfast with her bunch of friends too. Her mum invited me to her house for mahjong session, but I was going to class later on. YM fetched me to class later on. After my class, together with Wfen, went to Hong Hong’s house to buy some clothes. I bought two piece – both dress.

Then, we continued our nite at Boston having lala dinner with Jeremy, Ivan, Lily and Ciu Ciu. It was a nice dinner, only that a few of them complained that the lala doesn’t taste that good, and the waiting was ridiculous. Still… they dun like.. then I mai eat more lor… so easy… hehehehe