New Year's Eve 2010

Totally feeling insance for blogging my New Year's eve when it's already in the month of August.

But again, felt like putting this down onto my blog.

On the 31^st Dec 2010, which marks the fourth trip to Malacca, I took a half day's leave and head to Malacca with HH. After our quick lunch with 大姑,三姑 and mama, HH drove to Malacca, and we reached his home around 4.30pm.

Upon reaching his house, greeted happily by his mum, whom were asking us if we would like Popiah for dinner. Which was a great idea.

Self making popiah were the best, you can put whatever ingredients you may like. Mine of course, with loads of sambal~ Yummy...

After our Popiah dinner, we went Carrefour to shop around, do some house grocery shopping. Yeah, I found HH's family love to go shopping after dinner to places like Carrefour, Giant and Jusco. They tend to have this habit. Do house grocery, in each of the selected places.

We went home before midnite. HH asked if I would like to go out and pack around with the heaps, since it was quite a hot night, we rather stay at home and enjoy ourselves. All these while before going there, I had been wandaring what's it like to celebrate New Year's Eve in Malacca. Which was suddenly being thrown with words like damn jam, loads of people, just a tiny place for countdown, no parking, scary bunch of people... etc.

Well... it was not a bad idea staying at home, knowing you do not need to pack around with others, sweating along waiting for miracles which often were nothing more than a few fireworks.

将来的那个人

昨天在电台听到DJ说张小娴曾写过一片文章，有关将来的那个人。你是否确认爱一个人。。。

于是搜索了一下，发现以下这个文章。这里和大家分享。

张小娴 - 将来的那个人

当他年老，卧病在床的时候，你愿意照顾他吗？

听别人说，想知道自己是否爱一个人，只要想象一下，当他年老，卧病在床的时候，你愿意照顾他吗？

想到他老病的样子，你已经有点沮丧，那么，他绝对不是能够跟你厮守的人。

很幸运，我曾经遇到的，都是愿意在医院和病床前陪我的人。同样的，也是一种不幸。

很久以前读过一篇访谈文章，被访者是一位事业成功的男士。他说，年轻时他有过一个女朋友。一次，那个女孩子患肺病住进了医院，他过去一次之后，就再没去过，因为受不了病人身上的那种味道。女孩当然也明白，出院后没有再见他。

男士固然没错，女生做的也没错。

我不知道，到底是他不够爱她，还是他不能够忍受自己所爱的人软弱和生病。我也不知道，当他年老病倒的时候，会不会有一个爱他的人愿意包涵，不介意他的味道。

爱一个健康的人毫无困难。

爱一个穷人，是一种选择。

爱一个老病的人，是命运。当健康离弃了我们所爱的那个人，我们还能够爱他吗？

也许是几十年后的事了，但是，你现在就会知道他值不值得。

你到时候任然能够爱他，也还是不够的。当你同样年老，病在床上的时候，你愿意由他来照顾你吗？

你愿意让他看到你蓬头垢面的样子，衣衫不整的样子，面容憔悴的样子么？

只要他在，你就放心了。只要握住他的手，你就会感觉到不怕了。那么，他是你寻觅的人。

你只希望他是个来探病的朋友，而不是夜里抱你上厕所的人，那么，你要找的人，也许不是他。

在最软弱的时候，你会想念的那个人，还有，在那个人最软弱的时候，你会怜惜的，才是彼此将来的那个人。

那么，紧紧抓住他的手，不然后悔的，只能是你自己。